Can’t find your soul mate? Here’s how to play your cards
Are you having trouble, finding love? You are not alone. Many eligible men and wonderful women have trouble connecting with the one. Yes, they meet people, but they never really meet the person who fits their profile as a long-term partner. How can you increase your chances of meeting your soul mate and a future spouse?
If you want to meet your future Mr or Mrs Right, don’t be embarrassed about it. It is perfectly all right to be intentional about looking for love. Be realistic about the kind of person you are looking for. Remember that people are more likely to fall in love with people who are within reasonable physical distance and who have similar or close social, economic and physical looks ratings. Don’t waste your time with people who are not interested in you, or people who are already taken.
Don’t act disinterested in someone who looks like they have the potential to be your type. Ladies, playing hard to get may work for some men, but for others, it may discourage them from approaching a more welcoming female. Sometimes the suitors who persist are the ones who are interested in the challenge of conquest, and they give up as soon as they get the cookie.
On the other hand, don’t throw yourself at your object of interest. A balance of showing interest and waiting to know more about them, before committing, is the winning strategy. Be warm and welcoming, but have your boundaries, take time to know them before letting them into your heart (and into other parts of your body).
An important rule of meeting your significant other is to go where you are likely to meet many potential people in order for you to choose the one who is best for you. Sitting in the house, watching Netflix and texting people who are not even your type/ not available, will not help you meet your love. Go to places where single people hang out. To be more successful, go to places where your type of person would hang out. You want a religious person? Go to religious gatherings. You want a party animal? Go to parties and clubs. You want a person who is serious about physical fitness? Go to a marathon and other sports events.
Another rule is, if you don’t find your person in the place you have been looking, go to the next place. Go to another church, join another group of fitness enthusiasts, and visit other social places. Keep looking in different places until you meet your love. Don’t stay in one place for too long.
The last rule is, to know your strengths. Be ready to share these strengths with potential dates. Make sure to choose only the dates that value your strengths. For your own good, look for dates that have strengths that your value. Take your time, to choose the right person for you. You deserve to experience the love that you need.