marriage matters

This far, love and God has kept us going

Reading Time: 4 minutes  During this month of love, John and Yvonne Waithera Musyimi are celebrating a decade in marriage. They share their ‘for […]

Please help! My daughter wants to marry a poor man

Reading Time: 2 minutes Happy New Year Achokis. This year has started with a bang! My daughter surprised me towards the end of last […]

Marriage built on friendship

Reading Time: 2 minutes This week, my husband and I celebrated nine years of being officially married rather calmly. The truth is that we […]

My quiet husband says I nag him but I’m just concerned

Reading Time: 2 minutes Hi Achokis. I have been married for four years now. My husband is a nice guy and we love each […]

Help! I feel like a prisoner in my marriage

Reading Time: 2 minutes Hi Achokis. I have been married for seven years and have one child. I feel like my husband and I […]

Please help! Not having children is ruining our union

Reading Time: 2 minutes Hi Achokis. My partner and I live together, though we are not legally married. For the last three years, we […]

To be sensual or not

Reading Time: 4 minutes Uproar, anger, disbelief and even shame seem to be common reactions when it comes to female sensuality. This is clear […]

How to find your voice in bedroom matters

Reading Time: 4 minutes For most people, expressing their intimate needs doesn’t exactly happen naturally. But how can you have that ‘dirty talk’ and […]

Eight months of sexless union, are we broken?

Reading Time: 2 minutes Hi Achokis,  I have been married for 27 years and have two children aged 22 and 19 years. Since April […]

Of men publicising their sexual exploits on social media

Reading Time: 3 minutes Bragging about one’s sexual prowess can often feel cliché. And when this talk explodes in public—and it involves married men […]