relationships

Small talk in relationship, big deal

Reading Time: 4 minutes After matching on Tinder with this guy, Silvia Achieng opted to meet him face to face and see if something […]

Why it’s healthy to ask your spouse for permission

Reading Time: 4 minutes At 33, Emma Mwangi, a lawyer in Nairobi says she will never get married. Her reason? She has never liked […]

My wife can’t reveal her salary or help in paying bills at home

Reading Time: 2 minutes Thank you Ben for your question. We all come into the marriage with certain expectations. Some of these expectations stem […]

Anti-seductive traits to avoid

Reading Time: 2 minutes Some people attract and retain the interest of the opposite sex with enviable regularity, while others struggle to get a […]

Why it’s okay to hurt others’ feelings

Reading Time: 4 minutes Irene Dama, a 30-year-old Mombasa-based businesswoman, wishes she was not always trying to be a nice person to everyone because […]

Why can’t he commit even after three years of staying together?

Reading Time: 2 minutes Thank you Cathy for your question. First of all, three years is long enough for someone to know whether or […]

My husband detests that I sought help from our pastor

Reading Time: 2 minutes Hi Achokis.  My husband and I have been married for the last 17 years. We have three children and have […]

My husband’s familiarity with househelp is deeply worrying

Reading Time: 2 minutes Hi Achokis. My husband and I have been married for seven years and have two children aged five and three […]

Your attachment style and how it affects relationships

Reading Time: 4 minutes Just because we share the need to relate, interact and love does not mean we approach unions in the same […]

How we solved thorny issues in our not-so-rosy union

Reading Time: 4 minutes In a conflict you have two options, either you find reasons to get along, or you find reasons to fight […]